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Flash Movie Review: Love Again

I DO NOT WANT TO SAY it is creepy to hear the deceased’s voice on the phone, but it definitely is startling. When calling a friend who is unavailable, and the greeting on their phone is from one of their deceased family members, it can take one by surprise. The first time it happened, I found it disturbing to hear this voice that I remember from so many years of knowing them. I do not know the reason the deceased’s voice remains as the phone greeting, but I can appreciate the anxiety of letting go of a loved one. Maybe hearing the voice on the phone makes one feel like they are still part of us? I am not judging it; or at least I hope not. It is hard whenever one loses a loved one. I have seen a variety of ways people cope with loss. One person keeps their loved one’s coat and hat hanging on the coatrack; another has left the departed’s closet alone with all their clothes still hanging up. The toughest or let me say the hardest example I witnessed was a woman who lost their baby during the beginning of their eighth month. She had a nursery all set up; with all the necessities one needs for a newborn baby. She would sit and cry in the nursery every day for weeks; it was heartbreaking.      I HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED THE DEATH of someone close to me like a spouse or sibling; but I have felt the sense of loss from the breakup of a love relationship. In a way, it is like experiencing a death, particularly if the two of you were living together. Once the relationship ended, there were a few things I changed to avoid seeing the memory attached to the various items through the house. Photos of us together were placed in a drawer that I use for storage. Mementos like souvenirs bought during a vacation also were hidden away. I have mentioned before the first thing I usually do is change the routine we shared. There never is a time limit on how long one needs to heal from a loss, but for me one day suddenly something clicks, and I can gaze at the old photos and trinkets we acquired/created together. From my experiences it was always easier to deal with loss by feeling anger; it burned the sadness and unhappiness flowing through me. But at some point, the anger dissipates and reality sets back in, letting the healing process begin. As I watched this dramatic romantic comedy, I was hoping the main character would be able to work through her grief like I did with mine.      WITH THE SUDDEN LOSS OF HER fiancé, a children’s author continued to send texts to his cell phone, unaware the phone number was transferred to a new customer’s work phone. The texts were rather personal. With Priyanka Chopra Jonas (Baywatch, The White Tiger) as Mira Ray, Sam Heughan (The Spy Who Dumped Me, Outlander-TV) as Rob Burns, Celine Dion (Muppets Most Wanted) as herself, Sofia Barclay (Defending the Guilty-TV, NYPD Blue) as Suzy Ray and Russell Tovey (The Good Liar, Being Human-TV) as Billy Brooks; this film’s story was a bit hard to believe. The same goes for the chemistry between Priyanka’s and Sam’s characters; I was not completely in synch with them. Part of the groundwork in the script could have created a better story. I appreciated the sense of loss and the love aspects, but telling their story with Sam’s work life and throwing in Celine for another angle and it all was an odd mixture. If one just wants to give their brain a rest and see what people do for love, then this movie might stir something in your heart. There were extra scenes during the ending credits.

1 ¾ stars 

Flash Movie Review: The Good Liar

SEVERAL YEARS AGO, IN MY HOMETOWN there was a trial where the children of the deceased were suing their stepmother. She was the beneficiary of her husband’s estate according to the will; the children would only receive a nominal amount of money. They were quite upset as you can imagine; especially, because they felt their stepmother only married their father for his money. I should mention the stepmother was 30 years younger than her husband. Now before you question whether I might be subtly being judgmental, I have known both married and dating couples who have had a wide difference between their ages. They were happy together and I was happy for them. What made this trial curious to me was the fact the couple had been married only a couple of years after a brief dating period. It is funny, the only time I might become aware of such cases is when money plays a factor. To be honest I do wonder at times what a couple has in common when they are generations apart. Wasn’t there a celebrity case where the age difference was 40+ years? I would be interested to see, if money was not part of the package would the younger person still be interested in the individual?      WITHIN THE CIRCLES OF PEOPLE I have encountered I have met those who were aggressive in finding a mate. There was a woman who researched the men she dated. When I say research, she would try to get her hands on their credit report, use a friend at the Department of Motor Vehicles to see if the potential mate had a driving record, along with looking for any type of criminal activity. It was startling to see what lengths she would go to filter out those she felt were not suitable love interests. I found it offensive when someone would tell me they did not see themselves with the person they were dating but continued to stick around because they liked the attention and gifts they were getting from the person. To me, people like this are just being mercenary, taking advantage of the individual’s kindness. Maybe these people know they are being taken advantage of; then in that case, I have nothing to say about it. There are all kinds of people out there and what works for one may not work for the other. You might not believe what some people will do for love; for example, the couple in this dramatic thriller may surprise you.      THERE WAS SOMETHING ROY COURTNEY AND Betty McLeish, played by Ian McKellen (The Lord of the Rings franchise, Mr. Holmes) and Helen Mirren (The Queen, Anna), saw that attracted them to each other. The question however, what exactly was it? With Russell Tovey (The History Boys, Looking-TV) as Stephen, Jim Carter (Downton Abbey, The Oxford Murders) as Vincent and Mark Lewis Jones (Little White Lies, Star Wars: Episode VIII – The Last Jedi) as Bryn; this film shined because of Helen and Ian. They were wonderful to watch and truly did an amazing job with their characters. At times the story played like an Agatha Christie or Dan Brown novel with its twists and turns. The script kept me engaged until it got closer to the end where I was left disappointed; I did not care for the way the story ended. It came across to me as if it was done for a quick way to get out of the tale the story had woven. Too bad because with a little more tweaking and building up more depth to the characters this film could have been an attention grabber. I did not feel used buying a ticket to see this movie; however, I would have appreciated getting more for my money.

 

2 ½ stars